it’s official. i’m experimenting with online dating.
see, it started with little nudges from my friends, little jokes or threats here and there. nothing persuasive, though, since i’m honestly content as is. then i was talking to a friend last weekend about her online dating experiences, and we agreed that even if you don’t end up dating someone, it’s a good way to learn more about yourself and others. that got me thinking.
i filled out the personality profile. mostly so i could just see how they described me. it all seemed accurate, except when they said i could be described as “avant-garde,” going against the norm, pushing the boundaries of what makes most people comfortable. what? but i’m so traditional! oh, yeah… i guess i did travel to pakistan (and hope to go back soon)… and i did live in africa… and i did quit my steady job to be a missionary. maybe that’s “pushing it” a bit. fine. just because i think that’s normal doesn’t mean everyone else does. who gets to define normal anyway?
after finishing my profile, i was sent a few matches. whatever. but then two of them tried to contact me! they asked a few pre-fab questions, i tried to respond, but wham! i was shut down. apparently you have to pay to respond. hmm… is it worth it?
well, i took a vote over dinner with friends. really, i didn’t have to take a vote because everyone was on board. i will indeed try this online dating nonsense, and i will keep you posted on the drama that ensues. don’t get your hopes up. right now i’m just answering questions. i wouldn’t consider dating a single guy i’ve been “matched” with so far.
two side notes: 1) apparently this online dating thing is quite common. two of my dinner buddies tonight had personal experience to add to the mix. 2) from what i can tell so far, guys like to post pictures of themselves with nieces and nephews. is that supposed to be endearing? boy, this is going to be a long 3 months.